Join us for Lupercalia MMIX, February 13 to 15, 2009,
the 10th annual celebration of the Ancient Roman festival.
A Weekend of Fetish and Fun with a Taste of Ancient Rome

Laura Antoniou

Laura Antoniou

Laura Antoniou

Laura Antoniou has been writing erotica for over 20 years, when her day job permits her the time.  She lives in Queens with her wife Karen, and happily serves as boy to Kim Attica.  Friends have called her all sorts of name.  Current favorites being "Renaissance Perv" by Fetish Diva Midori, "Good Boy!" by Kim and of course, "best thing that ever happened to me" by Karen.

 

Laura is best known these days for her "Marketplace" series of novels, but back in the beginning, when pickings for good and readable porn was slim, Laura created the groundbreaking "Leatherwomen" anthologies, and edited several others.  Some of the work she created for those anthologies are reprinted in "The Catalyst and Other Tales".  Laura's work has been published in the United States, Germany, Japan and Korea, to international acclaim.  Her short stories and non-fiction essays also appear in other anthologies.  A full listing of her writings can be found at www.lantoniou.com.

 
Scheduled Workshops at Lupercalia MMIX
subject to change
“Tops Are From Gor, Bottoms Are From Roissy”

 
We frequently draw our relationship models from fictional universes, forgetting that those universes don’t always work the same way.  What happens when concepts like “master,” “slave,” and “service” are filtered through the Marketplace, Gor, Roissy or other fictional universes?  Laura will help separate fantasy from reality, discuss effective communication of roles, and explore how to borrow from fiction honestly while we craft our relationship styles.  There’s good stuff in our fiction as well as bad – be prepared to laugh at the unrealistic expectations, smile at fond memories of our dearest inspirations, and grimace at how we can turn something we did as a lark for a few year into a colossal waste of time.  (With a nod to Bill Shatner.)  
Too Kinky for Words: Playing way off the edge

 Everyone loves to claim they play on the edge, or their style of being kinky is somehow greater than the average pervert.  Yet even among the uber-kinky, there are those of us who have fantasies – or play styles – which seem to be beyond what is considered “acceptable.”  Is your kink really “OK”?  How can you tell?  Are there boundaries to be fantasies?  Should there be?  Should we/can we own our most unmentionable ones?  How do you share fantasies with a partner if they make you uncomfortable?  This workshop is more of a guided discussion group on the process of identifying, naming, sharing and potentially enacting our scariest fantasies.  It’s not about being outrageous to shock other – it’s about fear of community mores, worries about personal responsibility, shameful eroticism and secret joys.  This is a “closed door” workshop – once it begins, we will close the door on the outside world, both vanilla and kinky, and let loose.  Participants must come prepared to write down a fantasy or playstyle (anonymously, if they wish) and turn it in to the presenter.
 
Creative Disobedience: The Art of Being a Wiseass 

Mention SAMS or brats in the scene and you’ll get either glee at the prospect of an antagonistic scene or groans and kvetching from the more formal among us.  But there is a serious challenge to being just disobedient or defiant or teasing enough to entertain, divert and involve a top in playful reactions ranging from a laugh to some light hearted “punishment.”  Learn the basics of what it takes to walk that very fine line between being annoying or amusing, whiney or whimsical. 

 

 

 
 

 

Last Updated : Monday October 13, 2008